Crappy parents...

Yesterday was kind of an emo day for me. Was just bummed out for some reason. Anyhow, I thought I would get back to bitching about shitty parents.

I know a lot of people with kids. And to be honest, most are decent parents. There are also a few I think are really good parents. And there is also some I think are terrible parents. Granted these are just my opinions and maybe the ones I think are terrible other people think are good. Then again maybe not. What bugs me the most is that people who can't support themselves are allowed to have children. I know good people that for whatever reason can't have kids, yet these morons who probably didn't even graduate high school can. If you can't support yourself, what makes you think you can support a helpless child? Now, I'm not saying that everyone on welfare is a bad parent. Some can be pretty good. The difference is that the good ones realize they have to put their child first. A baby is helpless. They need someone to take care of them a d nurture them. If you don't get that, you don't deserve to have a child.

One of my biggest problems is the lack of discipline nowadays. When I was a child it was perfectly acceptable to spank your child. Now it's child abuse if you do it to much. Some kids just need to be spanked. Yelling at your kid only teaches them that its okay to yell at people. Sending a child to their room is the worst punishment. Hey send me to my room where all my toys and my bed are. Yeah that's a good strategy. The worst thing though is not punishing your children. So, when that child grows up to be an asshole, can we blame it on you? And neglecting a child is just as bad. Letting a child play video games all day is the worst parenting technique ever. You don't want to send time with your kid, so you park them in front of a tv and hand them a remote. Then we wonder why kids have ADD. Is it really going to hurt you to spend some time with your kid? If you didn't want it, why not give it to someone who does.

I hate deadbeat parents. This to me is worse than being a bad parent. Maybe I'm biased because my father wasn't around tosses me grow up. Not that it matters though, cuz my mom did a pretty good job of raising me on her own. I know deadbeat dads, other than my own. And to be honest, the children are better off without them. On of the people I consider a really good parent is a single mother, and both of them are better off without the father in their lives. And I hate when people say "it was an accident." If you're not preventing it, its not an accident. An accident is the birth control didn't work or the condemn ripped, not "oh, he didn't pull out in time."

It amazes me that even though we know smoking is bad and second hand smoke is just as bad, that people still smoke around their children. When I was a child, they didn't know it is as bad as it is. But we know how bad smoking is now. Yet people still smoke around their children. You're so desperate for a cigarette you're gonna endanger your childs health?
Or people that give their babies and toddlers soda. You can't give them milk or juice or water? Soda is so bad and has so much sugar in it. Hey, why don't you just let your child eat a candy bar also. Just set that kid up to be in poor health. Just because your a lazy piece of crap doesn't mean your child has to be that way too.

I don't have any kids, but it's only common sense that you need to watch little children at all times. They love to run away and get into things. It's really not that hard to keep an eye on one. I know people who have more than one and can keep an eye on them. So if they can watch multiple children, it shouldn't be that hard to watch just one. And it's normally a good idea to jeep all drugs and cleaners locked up. You think that would be common sense also, but apparently not for some people.

Anyway, that is all I wanted to bitch about. Hope you enjoy.